50 years later, Company belts existential angst like none other

April 10, 2024 by Ife Oshun

Britney Coleman as Bobbie (center) and the North American Tour of COMPANY. Photo by Matthew Murphy for MurphyMade.jpg
Company at the Citizens Opera House

Company hinges on the idea that, for a single person, hitting the age of 35 is a legitimate trigger for existential angst-filled fever dreams and musings on marriage. 

Wait, freaking out about turning 35. Is that still a thing?

Well, it was a thing in the 70s when this Stephen Sondheim musical premiered. The concept musical’s bed-hopping playboy, Bobby, has just turned said age and, as a result, nosedives into a rabbit hole of self doubt and self reflection. The eternal bachelor is then surrounded by his best friends, all married couples and his three girlfriends. A flurry of disconnected, slightly absurdist vignettes then ensues as his social circle present various, sometimes existential, aspects of the institution of marriage and question why Bobby isn’t married yet. The dated theme got a facelift in 2021 with a gender swap and now, in the Citizen’s Opera House production featuring Marianne Elliott’s red hot direction, the main character, Bobbie (portrayed by the luminous Britney Coleman), is a single cis woman. 

The challenge is not just the lack of a conventional storyline, but also the apocalyptic view of turning 35. As if the world has ended and now, before death, one must face the final frontier–marriage. It’s an archaic notion which doesn’t quite fly, and may not resonate with audience members who are unfamiliar with the history of the play. The other challenge is the gender-swapped character’s believability. How does a person who identifies as female singing lyrics that were originally written for a cis male character connect with a modern audience that is used to hearing female voices and perspectives free of the male gaze? Like, wouldn’t a single, successful, 35 year-old woman focus less on being married and, perhaps, more on the real elephant in the room–the ticking biological clock? After all, according to some recent statistics, more than 50% of American first marriages end in divorce while more women (married or not) are starting families later. 21st century gaps like these may have been the reason why the entire row I sat in emptied out as people left before intermission.

But despite the misses, there’s still plenty to enjoy. Technically perfect singing emits from the energetic, funny ensemble who manage to make the lyrically dense, incredibly hard-to-sing songs sound as smooth as honey. Nowhere is this more apparent than with the tongue twisting song “Getting Married Today” brilliantly delivered by a hyper-nervous Jamie (another gender-swapped character played by out actor Matt Rodin) as he considers his upcoming nuptials and marrying the man he loves. Tight, fresh acting peppered by Liam Steel’s scintillating choreography fills the gorgeous, yet spare boxes that comprise the set. So forget about context and linear plots. Seriously. Just sit back and lose yourself in classic tunes like “Being Alive,” “Company” and “The Ladies Who Lunch” and accept the fact that even Sondheim’s not-so-best is still pretty damn amazing.

More theater reviews

Voice overs and writing (Hello World 2024)

First post since pandemic and, yeah, I’m doing voice overs and stuff

Ok, before I dive into voice overs, let me just say, it’s super hard to believe my last post was in 2019. Well, no it’s not hard to believe. After all, that was the last “normal” year before the end of Life As We Knew It.

Funny thing, though. They say we’re post-pandemic, but it doesn’t feel like it. There’s a lot of dis-ease still happening around the world, deep collective mental health issues and societal psychopathy and sometimes I wonder if the human race will make it. This time around. 

I certainly hope so. 🙏🏾

But in the meantime, I’ve decided to do some more acting. Voice over acting, to be exact. It’s been a while since I did that, too. 

I’m first and always a writer, but I enjoyed acting for commercials, stage, TV and film and voice over work is something I truly enjoy doing. So, right now I’m building up my voice over portfolio, and marveling how the industry has changed. Platforms like Fiverr and Upwork have really leveled the playing field and empowered more people to take advantage of all the opportunities out there. 

But don’t worry; I’m still writing. In fact, I have a sizzling manuscript in hand. And as soon as I team up with the right people (as in the right agency) you’ll be hearing more about it. I promise. ❤️ In the meantime, check out a couple of demos or check out some more here:

https://youtu.be/eEHhXKbuV0ghttps://ifeoshun.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/03/Voice-Over-ExplainerVideoDemo.mp3

If you’re a business looking to order voice over services, visit any of the following links to place an order and get information on rates. You can also place custom orders for voice overs, too.

Order voice overs

https://www.fiverr.com/s/aLegKp (Rush delivery)
https://www.fiverr.com/s/NjeLqZ (Standard delivery)
https://www.fiverr.com/s/RpVaXx (IVR, phone tree, voicemail)
https://www.upwork.com/freelancers/~014d43f7f1c87b92ea?viewMode=1&s=1017484851352698939

New Project: Hosting the ODDDIO Podcast

Odddio Podcast BannerI’m excited to announce that I’m now hosting the new Odddio podcast. It feels good to again embrace the roots of my professional writing career–music artist interviews. Wooohooo!!!

🎵 But this time, we not only spotlight the music, we also chat about weird, strange, and unusual topics–you name it–aliens, the paranormal, crop circles, mythic beings, all the fun stuff I love to explore.

Music + weird stuff. Sound familiar?

It’s the story of my life!

Some of the most amazing, and imaginative, conversations I’ve ever had are with music artists about topics that are nowhere near the beaten path. I’m grateful for this opportunity to chat with talented people in an environment that’s free of judgement.

The first episode sees me chatting with rock band Somerset about their debut album, and Area 51 whistle blower Bob Lazar. It was so much fun!

The full audio Odddio (get it, huh, get it?) podcast can be found on the Odddio website as well as a number of subscription platforms such as Google podcasts, and more. You can also check out video segments on the Odddio YouTube channel. Here’s a sample:

Please like and subscribe to the #Odddio channel on YouTube to see video segments, follow me on #Instagram or visit the ODDDIO website to download the full audio podcast, transcripts, and more.

I’m also grateful to connect with fantastic local artists for this show. There’s a lot of great talent out there. I hope you enjoy!

👍🏾😀🙏🏾🎶💖 Don’t forget to share!👍🏾😀🙏🏾🎶💖 This new podcast needs your support!

See you in the land of Odddio!!

Odddio Theme Song Credit: “Trans My Gray Shun” – T.Blackett, I. Oshun (TBlack Productions, Papa Grace)

Teen X: Teen Summit 2018

Hosted by the Massachusetts Library System, the Teen Summit draws teen and young adult librarians from all over the state. To celebrate the Summit’s tenth anniversary, the wonderful folks who organize this lively lit fest dubbed the event Teen X, and invited me to be one of the key note speakers.

It was an honor to talk to, and meet, so many fantastic librarians. I had a great time sharing my thoughts regarding libraries; the power they have, and their role in shaping young minds.

Teen X

Photo Credit: Mirasol Murray

Here are a few pics:

Teen X

Photo Credit: Mirasol Murray

Teen X

Photo Credit: Mirasol Murray

Teen X

Photo Credit: Mirasol Murray

Teen X

Photo Credit: Mirasol Murray

Meditation Gaga: My Head Is Empty, and I Feel Awesome

Silhouette of a person meditating outside

Credit: Prasanth Inturi

Meditation Gaga

Unless you live under a cyber rock, you’ve probably heard about meditation. With all the cool apps out here, you probably do it, too. But just in case you don’t know what it is, here’s a brief definition:

It’s when you empty your mind. No thoughts. Nada.

And for a more, ahem, formal definition of meditate, here’s Webster:

“to engage in mental exercise (such as concentration on one’s breathing or repetition of a mantra) for the purpose of reaching a heightened level of spiritual awareness”

I personally have practiced meditation for a long time, probably (I’m quite proud to say) longer than some of you have been alive. But that doesn’t mean that I’ve done it every day. There have been gaps in the practice, some stretch out for days, some have lasted for over a year.

At first, I was ashamed of the fact that I didn’t meditate every day. I approached it as a job — show up, do the time, repeat the next day. Usually, while meditating, my mind would wander, and I would swiftly kick myself in the mental pants, chide myself (yeah there was a lot going on in my brain), and get back on the right path immediately or else.

I was reluctant to call what I was doing meditation, much less a practice, because these lapses made me feel embarrassed. I was under the belief that meditation was successful only when one teleported to a chosen destination or levitated off of one’s mat. Since neither of those were happening, I deemed myself a meditation imposter– someone who claimed to meditate, but in reality was just struggling to stay awake with my eyes closed, or keep my mind from racing to a million (usually morose) thoughts within the space of a few minutes.

But now I don’t care. Something about my journey over the past year has made me stop mentally bashing myself. I just enjoy meditation for meditation’s sake, and the feeling of no thought.

So, yeah, I’ve emptied my mind of thoughts that don’t serve me, and I’ve empowered myself to just be. And it feels awesome.

Beacon Hill Halloween 2017

Beacon Hill Halloween 2017

We spent another family Halloween in the Beacon Hill area and had a great time. The amazing array of decorations seems to get better with each passing year.

This time around I took more video. Enjoy!

Hello World…Again, Part Two

For me, 2016 was a journey.

Down.

2017 is seeing me rise.

Up.

That’s my story in a nutshell.


Here’s the longer version of that story…

In 2016:

  • I let fear take over my life and, fully operating in lack/limitation mode, made some poor decisions
  • I tried to be something I am not and hid my truth for fear that it would hinder me
  • I was in constant chronic pain
  • I stopped leading the active lifestyle I’d led my entire adult life
  • Because of the poor decisions I’d made, I suffered from anxiety that was so bad I was afraid to fall asleep each night
  • I let anger toward, and hatred of, an individual take root and fester in my heart and mind
  • I became severely depressed; my mind went into what was the darkest place it had ever gone
  • I started taking prescription anti-depressants (I hate drugs)
  • I gained 15 pounds
  • I let fear take over my life and, fully operating in lack/limitation mode, made some poor decisions

Notice the last item is identical to the first item. That’s because the cycle repeated. Needless to say, I didn’t finish my next books.

via GIPHY

There was some progress in business and other exterior pursuits, but when it comes to what really matters, who I AM, I lost myself in 2016.

But I didn’t realize it until the last week of the year. Specifically, the week between Christmas and New Year’s Day.

As a result… I started to rise

In 2017:

  • I’ve restarted my yoga practice
  • I’ve reprogrammed my brain to tell me something positive as soon my eyes in the morning
  • I’ve restarted my daily meditation practice
  • I workout 5 times a week
  • I speak, walk, and live my truth
  • For the first time (in a loooong time), I’m on a diet
  • I’ve restarted my yoga practice

Notice the last item is identical to the first item. That’s because the cycle repeats. Needless to say, I am feeling so much better.

In addition…

  • I no longer require prescription anti-depressants
  • I’m actively stating my truth to whomever I come into contact with (how liberating!)
  • Whenever anger/hatred tries to raise its head, I lovingly obliterate it

I’ve discovered that speaking my truth cannot destroy me. It just makes me stronger.

via GIPHY

2017, so far, has been an amazing year. The winter is over, Spring is here, and my goal is to bring the heat (ok, I couldn’t resist the Game of Thrones dragon reference).

 

via GIPHY

 

Ramping: How I Prepare for My Extended Juice Cleanses

Ramping: How I Prepare for My Extended Juice Cleanses

Note: This is a method I perfected for myself since starting juice cleansing in the mid-90s. It is due in part to Queen Afua, whose book Heal Thyself was my gateway into detoxing during a time when cleansing was still viewed, in this country, as whacky. My method may not work for you; everybody’s body is different. As always listen to your body temple; it can tell you a lot about what it needs!

Juice Cleanse

Tomorrow will be the first day of my 2015 Winter Cleanse. I do this detox/cleanse every year (along with a Summer Cleanse) however this year’s been a little different. Usually I start in February and am done by this time of year, but Snowmeggedon 2015 was brutal. My entire being was in serious hibernation mode until March and I steadily ate comfort foods.

Ramping up

In light of the amount of time spent snowed in and shoveling out, I gave myself a break this year and allotted more time to ramping up than ever before. Usually it takes 3-4 days to ramp up to a 100% juice cleanse, but this year I’ve been ramping for the past two weeks. What does ramping mean? Simply it’s the method of removing particular food groups from your diet in order to facilitate an easier transition into juicing. For example, if you eat steak on Monday and decide you’ll start a juice cleanse on Tuesday, odds are you have less of a chance at success when your body starts craving meat. But if you’d removed meat from your diet on Tuesday and went without it completely before commencing to juice Friday, there’s a much higher likelihood that the cravings for meat will have a weaker hold on you.

Since I juice cleanse for a minimum of 7 consecutive days, it’s important to me that my body is primed for the long haul. Juice cleansing is a marathon, and ramping up properly is a way of stacking the odds in my favor. The first things I remove are animal products. I don‘t eat red meat (haven’t for over 22 years) or many dairy products (with the exception of yogurt, which I’ll explain in a minute), so the first thing I removed from my diet was poultry and fish. After a couple of days, I started removing my real weakness—carbs. I cut down on cooked grains, whole grain crackers and breads over the course of 5 days. This method almost guarantees zero cravings and helps me go as long as I like. My longest 100% juice cleanse, so far, was 15 days.

Balancing out

As I remove various cooked foods from my diet I increase raw foods—both fruits and vegetables. I jump to 50% raw immediately, and from there ramp down the cooked/baked foods while increasing the amount of raw. Around now is the time I introduce the juicing by having a serving of juice at whatever time’s convenient, usually at night. This is also a good time to re-compile my juice recipes and try some newbies. Once I hit 100% raw, I either start juicing 100% the next day or ramp down raw for a day or two while increasing juice exponentially, depending on what my body tells me its comfortable with.

This year, I’ve got a new goal–weight loss. For the 15 years I’ve been doing this bi-annual cleanse (I started 20 years ago, but stopped during pregnancy and slacked off during early momhood), I’ve always sought to cleanse and detox above anything while the (inevitable) weight loss was icing on the cake. Now, in the wake of the Great Hibernation and what seemed like never-ending eating, it’s like getting rid of the Freshman Fifteen all over again. My goal is to lose at least 10 pounds, and so far I’ve lost four pounds on ramping alone.

Why yogurt?

As mentioned above, the one dairy product I keep in my diet is yogurt. I don’t drink cow’s milk and rarely eat cheese (although I LOVE it), because of its effect on me. Yes, I am lactose intolerant, but according to much research so is the majority of the human race.

“Look, are you a suckling calf? Name one creature on earth that uses milk after it’s weaned. Man’s the only one. And man’s the only one who lives out only half his life span. A cow has four stomachs. You don’t. You can’t handle whole milk.” – Jack Lalane

Yogurt, on the other hand, while still a dairy product doesn’t wreak havoc on the human digestive system due to the active cultures it possesses.

“A benefit of yogurt…not present in most milks is the presence of probiotics. Probiotics are healthy bacteria that help maintain digestive and immune health.” – Larissa Gedney

Yogurt is honestly one of the best things I can put in my body. Plus it fits in with my juicing efforts—I love making yogurt-based smoothies during my Summer Cleanse. So yummy!

But how does it feel?

Juice cleansing is not about starving your body—far from it—it’s about feeding your body all the vitamins and nutrients it needs while giving it a break from digesting solid food. And, just in case you’re wondering, I still work out while ramping and cleansing. To support that, not only do I ramp up my protein intake with yogurt-based smoothies, I also add soy-based protein powders, green supplements such as spirulina, wheatgrass and more. That being said I keep my cardio workouts to 30 minutes—5 minutes stretch on either end of 20 minutes sustained cardio. With that ratio of exercise and calories I lose pounds, detox and stay energized!

It feels fabulous!

Over the next few days, I’ll give more details about my cleanse, including recipes and cleansing techniques. Stay tuned!

 

Heart To Heart Top 10 Video Playlist

Heart To Heart Top 10 Video Playlist

Heart To Heart Top 10 Video Playlist

Heart To Heart Top 10 Video Playlist

Like the Top 10 Audio list, this video list offers the top songs from the Heart To Heart Official Playlist, the sixty songs I played religiously over the roughly year and a half that it took to write and edit (and edit, and edit) Heart To Heart. There are also a few other songs from the official list that are thrown in here, just for fun.

Unfortunately, not every song has an official video, some are simply fan-made such as the Dark Shadows tune, “Go All The Way,” which was never officially released.

Artists on this video list include Lorde, Ellie Goulding, Santigold, Icona Pop, Florence + the Machine, and more.

Also check out the Official Blood To Blood Playlist so see what I listened to while writing the first book in the Angelica Brown Series, Blood To Blood.

Blood To Blood: Second Edition

Blood To Blood: Second Edition – It’s here!

The second edition of Blood To Blood is now available for sale! Look for new cover art and a more compact size (5.5″ x 8.5″ in the paperback format).

The new edition, released March 18 (today) features a hot new cover. You’ll see a blood-filled wineglass in the process of shattering. Yum… Check it out:

Blood To Blood: Second Edition

Blood To Blood: Second Edition

This is a huge change from the original cover which featured the shadowy silhouette of a singer holding a microphone and a lot of red. I’ll post it down below so you can compare.

Blood To Blood: First Edition

Blood To Blood: First Edition

Besides the new cover art and paperback size, there is also a slight title change. The subtitle “Book One in the Angelica Brown Series” has been added to differentiate it from the upcoming sequel Heart To Heart (Book Two).

For all you who are interested, there are still autographed first edition paperbacks available here. You can also order an autographed second edition paperback as well.

The first edition is officially out of print as of the date of this post, while the second edition is available pretty much everywhere. Ask for it at your local Barnes & Nobles, that is if it’s still open. If you’re looking for it in your local indie bookstore, it’s available for wholesale ordering through Baker & Taylor and Ingram.

Thanks to all my fabulous friends and book-loving colleagues who helped me zero in on the best cover art! I love the new design and hope you do, too.

Goodbye first edition! Hello upcoming sequel!

Blood To Blood: Second Edition